Why Do Bad Guys Have So Much Sex Appeal?

It's that frequently asked question "why do bad guys have so much sex appeal to so many women?" I know its an old question but I thought it would still make a good thought-provoking topic for one of my blogs.

We constantly complain about not being able to find a 'good man' but when we do find one we turn our back on him and instead chase the bad guy. I know I am speaking about a small minority of women but the numbers are still staggering. Why do some of us do that ladies? I guess it's that old question with a million superficial answers. Let me share my thoughts on the subject. In my opinion it usually boils down to one of four things (see if you agree).

1) the explosive love-making that follows those tireless verbal fights;
2) the excitement (albeit subconscious) of that unpredictable, turbulent relationship... the 'never-a-dull-moment' syndrome that keeps you going back for more;
3) the challenge of winning his love & affection over others;
4) the challenge being THE ONE who will have the power to change him!

Bullet point 2) does seem a little crazy but that's the nature of the female psyche. Of course, not all females think this way, but I am sure it is a significant percentage! Before everyone starts getting bent out of shape with some of these stereotypical gender generalizations (and I say that with a smile on my face ladies), remember the title of this blog is "Why do bad guys have so much sex appeal" not "Why do bad guys make good husbands" because we all know they don't!

If you have a strong opinion on this topic or if you are a BBS victim (the "bad boy syndrome") make sure you add a comment in the Comment box below.

Glad I got you thinking!

Yours truly


"CQ"