
I don't know if its just me but Christmas seems to come around quicker and quicker each year. There's still only 365 days in a year so I guess its just me... lol! If you read my November blog you will remember I said that Christmas was one of my favorite Holidays. Aside from the fact that its one of the biggest religious celebrations, there's something very magical about the love that is felt at this time of year - no other Holiday, in my opinion, generates so much love and goodwill as Christmas and the New Year.
I know what I am about to say may sound a little selfish, especially in a world that is full of poverty and potical wars but until 6 or 7 years ago Christmas was the one time of year when I would always look to my boyfriend, my significant other, my husband (whatever relationship I happen to be in around Christmas time) to adorn me with beautiful meaningful gifts (well, I am a Caribbean Queen and Queens should be showered with gifts, right! ...lol). I was always such low maintenance throughout the year that I felt Christmas was 'my time.' I wanted gifts that showed me how much he truly cared, how much I really meant to him and how special our relationship was. Surprisingly, I wanted this more at Christmas time than any other time of the year, even more than my birthday which I know is a little strange. However, sadly I don't think this wish was ever really fulfilled by ANYONE (ahhhhh) ... I bet I know what you're thinking. No, its not that I expected really extravagant gifts, just things that showed either aaaalot of thought, effort or sacrifice (by-the-way, an expensive gift would fall under the 'sacrifice' category... lol).... I hope you're not feeling sorry for me or, even worse, being mad at me because underneath all that superficial stuff I really do feel very blessed: I am in relatively good health (of course it would be even better if I exercised more); I have a healthy spunky eleven year old, I have a roof over my head, food on the table, basic home comforts, a home-based business that I love... the list just goes on and one. So you see, I do take time to reflect and appreciate all that I have and also on those who have nothing - nothing but inner turbulence, a spiritual void, no family to reminisce with, no friends to celebrate with - just total loneliness! Yes, I really do have a lot to be grateful for. Today when I ask myself if I care about receiving the perfect Christmas gift?" My answer is "absolutely not!!!" Hey, but finding a new Lexus in the driveway on Christmas day would be kind'a nice... I'm just kidding!!!
'Tis most definitely the season to be jolly but more importantly 'tis the season for giving (to the needy that is). So now would be a great time to let go of any unrealistic gift expectations and turn your focus to the less fortunate. By doing this I think you will find yourself becoming far more appreciative of anything you receive!
In addition to the above why not also do some internal cleansing: If you are holding on to any negative thoughts, malicious intentions or hateful feelings towards your spouse, a friend, neighbor, co-worker or family member, now would be a good time to let it go and take a moment to reflect on the true meaning of Christmas, Kwanzaa, Hanukkah or whatever your celebratory term happens to be...
REJOICE and GIVE THANKS!!!
Have a Happy & Safe Holiday Season!
Hope you continue to follow my blogs in 2010.
"CQ"
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